Posted by: Arden Compton | June 13, 2009

Pornography addiction – not a concern any more.

Here is an email that was sent to me from a client for his monthly check up.  I emailed him, asking him how he was doing, this was his response.  This gentleman was one of the very rare ones who only had three visits before I put him on the monthly check in.  He’s done great.  If you have any questions or comments please feel free to comment.

I’ve been paying close attention to what I’m doing.  Things get thrown in front of your face all the time and I’ve been able to think about my experience with you and repeat some of the things in my mind that you had me say and it has given me strength to turn away.  I feel that I’m doing good at this point.  Absolutely no concerns.  – Anonymous



  1. Good to hear! Why do you think he’s been able to overcome so quickly?

    • Good question Luke.
      This specific person had a relatively minor problem with pornography. He was one who would bing a few times/year with pornography. So, long term follow-up will be important. But he knew it was wrong, wanted it out of his life, and so most of the time he refrained from viewing it. However, a few times a year he would give in and look at it for a few hours. This is different from a person who is engaging in pornography several times/week and can’t seem to stop.
      However, the difference he is experiencing is that since we have addressed what was really driving the problem, he isn’t “white knuckling” it, he is free from the pull, and he now has tools that help him when he is confronted with it.
      I have had a few other clients that took as few as 3 or 4 visits, and some of them surprised me because they did have a more serious problem. Some people are just really ready to let it go, and with the EFT process and God’s help, they let it go very quickly despite past failures in being able to leave it alone.
      If you have any more questions or comments, feel free to contact me, I am more than happy to share with others what I have found works. I don’t know where you are, but if you happen to be in Utah, I am doing a free seminar in Farmington on Tuesday, April 16th, 7:00 p.m. You are welcome to come. You can see the ‘Seminar & Workshop’ tab on my blog for more information.

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