Posted by: Arden Compton | June 7, 2010

Not looking, but still wrestling with porn

Recently  I have had several new clients in a similar situation.  They each have gone a long period of time without looking at porn, and the time between viewing is very long – months or even years.  However, they problem they each have is that the desire to look at pornography is nearly a daily struggle. They have put safe guards in their life, they aren’t allowing themselves to go there, but the cravings still keep coming.

Many feel that is the way it will be for the rest of their life, that this is as good as it is going to get, and this is just the nature of a pornography addiction.  However, my experience has been different.  With each of these new clients they felt a dramatic difference after just one visit. They each reported back that the daily wrestle with pornography cravings have become almost non-existent.  What a tremendous blessing after all this time of staying clean to actually feel clean and not be plagued by this problem any more.

If you are find yourself in this category, please know that with the right tools and God’s help you too can be free from the plague of pornography.  It doesn’t have to be a daily wrestling match.

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  1. Yes, I am in this category, Hell I can go on to a website but yet Never look at porn and mastebate but Yet I still crave to go on the website.I haven’t looked at porn for nearly 40 days and the thing is someone told me that I should have a filter and yet If put one on like I did before The cravings would be intesified that I would relapse. so I am in hard mental battle against myself. This isn’t a daily thing but at least the cravings are bad on a monthly basis, I am in a twelve step support program and I am part of curethecraving.com. If you can give me something to beat the cravings I would appreciate it

    • Hi Christopher, I can definitely give you some tools to help you beat the cravings. You can go through my blog and find more information. Watch the videos. Read the post “Why you can’t stop once you start” to see what is really going on with these cravings. If you would like some one-on-one coaching from me to help you really break free of this, feel free to send me a email at wholesomelives@mac.com. I am here to help, nothing brings me greater joy than to help someone break free from the pull of pornography.


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